Navigating the healing journey after a 20-year marriage ends in divorce is a transformative process, one that I never expected to go through. My experience has been filled with introspection, self-discovery, and learning how to create boundaries in my new single life. Let me share my journey with you, from letting go of the past to building a hopeful future.
Letting Go of the Past
The end of a long marriage brought a mix of emotions and memories that sometimes felt overwhelming. Letting go of the old ways is essential for healing, but it doesn’t happen overnight. Moving away from my ex-husband and his family gave me the physical and emotional space I needed to focus on my own journey.
Establishing new boundaries with friends and family who knew us as a married couple has been key. I let go of people who couldn’t respect my boundaries after divorce so I could heal and not be triggered all the time. By communicating my needs and setting clear expectations, I can maintain healthy relationships while allowing myself to move forward.
Rediscovering Myself
As I navigate life after divorce, I’m taking the opportunity to redefine who I am outside of my marriage. I’m exploring my interests, passions, and dreams that may have been on hold for too long. Embracing this journey of self-discovery is both empowering and healing.
Living alone after years of sharing a home can be both liberating and lonely. I’m learning to cultivate a sense of independence and enjoy my own company, while surrounding myself with people and activities that uplift me.
Building Financial Security
Financial stability can be one of the biggest challenges after a divorce, especially when it comes to finding a reasonable apartment on my own. Rebuilding credit and establishing a secure financial future is taking time and effort, but I’m making steady progress. Seeking guidance from a financial advisor and setting achievable goals has been helpful.
Opening My Heart to Love Again
Trusting again after being with someone who betrayed me has been one of the toughest aspects of moving forward. Healing old wounds and allowing myself to be open to new possibilities is a gradual process. I’m taking my time and focusing on nurturing self-love and self-respect.
Embracing a New Way of Life
This journey after divorce has led me to housesitting and a nomadic lifestyle that I never would have experienced if I had stayed married. This new chapter in my life has given me the freedom to explore different places, meet new people, and discover more about myself and the world around me. It’s a path I never imagined, but one that has brought me a deep sense of fulfillment and adventure.
Looking Forward to the Future
In February, the loss of one of my best friends was a profound moment that made me put Librated on hold. As I heal from the loss and process the changes in my life, I am getting my thoughts together and revamping ideas for the masterclass. Thank you for being patient as I take the time to honor my friend and continue my journey of self-discovery and growth.